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Old 04-11-2009, 11:49 AM
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well you can always go all out and get a simple gift, like a chocolate or something she likes, write out a apology, say you were foolish, you're sorry, ask for forgiveness and you value this friendship and dont think of her that way, etc etc

Then give it to her

Effort is what people want to see. A simple I'm sorry, two syllables will solve everything? nope. Anyone can say the words, but you have to show that you're honestly and seriously sorry.

Oh and dont over do it and get her a diamond ring or something cos thats gonna put guy A in a spot.
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Old 04-11-2009, 11:53 AM
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Yes i know im inthe wrong, so could i get some help instead of criticisms?
I give you a 2 for 1 combo, should thank me!
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Old 04-11-2009, 12:01 PM
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Yeah having exams but my clique and i still chat on a regular basis. You know what, i genuinelh have no idea what to do. I think im going to let time do the healing.
time will only fade this friendship.. time will not heal this hurt.. just go up to her and give your most sincere apologies and assure how this friendship is really important to you.. and ask her what she wishes for you to do to gain her forgiveness.. no giving up on your part.. even if it means saying sorry everyday.. if your ego gets in the way.. then you really deserve losing her friendship ya
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Old 04-11-2009, 12:07 PM
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time will only fade this friendship.. time will not heal this hurt.. just go up to her and give your most sincere apologies and assure how this friendship is really important to you.. and ask her what she wishes for you to do to gain her forgiveness.. no giving up on your part.. even if it means saying sorry everyday.. if your ego gets in the way.. then you really deserve losing her friendship ya

Sounds very scary when you're offering yourself to a girl on a silver platter. LOL. But yeah i understand, thanks black sister.
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Old 04-11-2009, 12:48 PM
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To you, it meant a joke to label her that. To her, she might never trust a person who labelling her a nasty nick behind her again. I m not good at disaster recovery as well. Guess you have a lot of works to do to re-gain the friendship. I think the only way is to constantly show her your sincerity on treasuring the friendship over a period of time, even to the extend as similar to the way you repent to your gf.
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Sounds very scary when you're offering yourself to a girl on a silver platter. LOL. But yeah i understand, thanks black sister.
haha.. she just has to state anything.. but you still have a choice to say no to ridiculous demands right?
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