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Originally Posted by alphorix
money is only important to have a good life if you raise the value to money so high in your life that you believe only being wealthy can bring you a 'good' life. and most importantly, why should your man PROVIDE you with the money to KEEP YOU ALIVE? do you mean you are not independent enough to eke out a living yourself that you have to rely on someone else? if that is the case, then of course, money is of utmost importance in your relationship--he is your source of food and shelter.
if all you can dream about is the luxury wealth can bring, of course you will suffer with a poor man, thinking about the huge opportunity costs. the kinds of suffering in a marriage is so diverse it cannot only be attributed to being poor. what if a rich man abuses his wife and controls her freedom? is that wife more fortunate that a woman who marries a poor man who respects her?obviously not...
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This is addressed to whimsicalnut.
When you marry for money, physically you will be so well-off. This is the fact that no one can deny.
But emotionally, you are not much different from been a dead person. I say this from personal experience. Your very existence is painful to yourself because, as mentioned, who says a rich family does not have problems? In fact, a rich family has more unsolvable problems than you may realise.
Just talk lah
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