How to not be shy in front of girls

methepro · #1 09-10-2009, 10:00 PM

i am a shy guy in sch, toward girls onli... i dun dare to speak too loud or sound "gangsterly" in front of the girls, as im afraid they have bad impression about me... what shld i do? give me some suggestions? and i still gt no gf T_T... i dun dare jio..

guitar123 · #2 09-10-2009, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by methepro

i am a shy guy in sch, toward girls onli... i dun dare to speak too loud or sound "gangsterly" in front of the girls, as im afraid they have bad impression about me... what shld i do? give me some suggestions? and i still gt no gf T_T... i dun dare jio..

How old are you? I think only in Secondary school?

Don't waste time thinking of girls. Study.

methepro · #3 09-10-2009, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by guitar123

How old are you? I think only in Secondary school?

Don't waste time thinking of girls. Study.

poly

i wanna get a gf.....

nullspace · #4 09-10-2009, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by methepro

poly

i wanna get a gf.....

Even though i dun have girlfriend neither am i gd at chasing gal, i noe how not to be shy in front of gals. Lol to make more female friends u can either treat them lyk u treat a guy( but dun use vulgarities if possible). and look into their eye when tok to them not anywhere else. With courage it is ez not to be shy. To build up courage accompany a friend who is gd at communicating with girl, u will naturally tok to gals more de and slowly u will not be shy le.

Believee · #5 09-10-2009, 10:19 PM

Ah, having gf or bf not important.
For what ? 2 people's time wasted, then less time to study.

OneHarmoniousBlend · #6 09-10-2009, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by methepro

poly

i wanna get a gf.....

go there to study, and go and get one there

much as i wanted to get a gf, you have to think, if you want to get a GF, are you going to suffer the 2 years disadvantage your partner has? best is after NS though. i would want to get a girlfriend in poly though, but first thing first

just to share my experience though

alex_0721 · #7 09-10-2009, 11:55 PM

before NS, don;t get into serious relationships. have more female frends. go out as a grp

grey_havens · #8 10-10-2009, 01:26 AM

u'll grow out of the shyness,eventually it wont be a problem.If u've got female cousins or sisters,just treat talking to girls like ur talking to them.
Anyway,the basis of a strong r/s is a strong friendship.

NOMAD1990 · #9 10-10-2009, 02:41 AM

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Originally Posted by methepro

i am a shy guy in sch, toward girls onli... i dun dare to speak too loud or sound "gangsterly" in front of the girls, as im afraid they have bad impression about me... what shld i do? give me some suggestions? and i still gt no gf T_T... i dun dare jio..

Be yourself,jus filter out your thoughts,treat them like any other guy friend you hang arnd,ultimately be yourself

icedlemontea · #10 10-10-2009, 03:03 AM

agree with most stompers above..dun bother getting into a serious relationship before NS..

if you wanna make more female friends but are shy yourself, maybe try to participate in grp discussions where there is at least one other guy around then maybe you'll feel less awkward..try to contribute whenever possible when you're in a group..then slowly graduate to talkin to girls one on one..

most girls are quite friendly anyways. so the least u can do is to at least be friendly back if they ask u questions and dun give one word answer..ask them questions back..conversation shld flow naturally..most girls want a listener cuz they are naturally chatty..so if you're a good listener u dun even need to say much, just show an interest in what the girls have to say..

if all else fails, observe a guy whom u think has quite a number of female friends and see how he acts around girls..u'll get a better idea of what to say/behave =)