Do you really understand opposite sex ?

[TingTing189]

Guys, do you think you understand the girls ?? Maybe like in a r/s, do you really know what your gf wants. Do you think you understand them well enough.

Same for the girls, do you think you understand the guys ?? And those in r/s, do you think what you do are what they want. Or you just expect them to know.

[virtualsight]

I feel that I do understand chicks who I'm not interested in.. Hahaha.. Emotions does cloud the mind. With the one that I like around, I can be doing the silliest thing and making a total fool out of myself. Sigh~

It's always the one who is the most important to you that you screw up.. Well, for me anyway.

[Xuxin800]

TingTing, I wish that I could offer some critical input, but as an officially asexual person, I am utterly useless where relationships are concerned. In terms of friendship, though, I feel that we can never truly understand another person, but sometimes, we should not try too hard to "psychologize'' everything. Sometimes, in being questioning and unsure, we are being most loving. It may be a little disturbing to have someone analyzing your slightest actions.

I don't profess to know what is on the mind of some of my male friends, but I'll try my best to listen if they wish for an audience, and being there for them if I can, even if I don't fully understand, is sometimes the best I can do.

Have a great day ahead and please take care.

[TingTing189]

Originally Posted by virtualsight

I feel that I do understand chicks who I'm not interested in.. Hahaha.. Emotions does cloud the mind. With the one that I like around, I can be doing the silliest thing and making a total fool out of myself. Sigh~

It's always the one who is the most important to you that you screw up.. Well, for me anyway.

Then you have make sure you change this thinking if you're looking for long-term r/s. Of course understand her a little more, take the time to see her needs.

Even her smile might mean sth.

[effervescence]

It doesn't matter if they're of the opposite sex or not. Everyone confuses me. LOL.

[ma_cherie]

i understand the opposite sex, better than my own sex

[lostsouls]

No point understanding dirty SG girls.

[TingTing189]

Originally Posted by Xuxin800

TingTing, I wish that I could offer some critical input, but as an officially asexual person, I am utterly useless where relationships are concerned. In terms of friendship, though, I feel that we can never truly understand another person, but sometimes, we should not try too hard to "psychologize'' everything. Sometimes, in being questioning and unsure, we are being most loving. It may be a little disturbing to have someone analyzing your slightest actions.

I don't profess to know what is on the mind of some of my male friends, but I'll try my best to listen if they wish for an audience, and being there for them if I can, even if I don't fully understand, is sometimes the best I can do.

Have a great day ahead and please take care.

Yah true, we cn never understand a person throughout.

But we must at least make the afford to understand a particular person. Maybe like name, where they live or sch. Those simple 1. Like what they don't like to eat.

Understanding start from approaching, take time to understand a person and you'll find this friendship a very meaningful 1.

[Xuxin800]

Originally Posted by TingTing189

Yah true, we cn never understand a person throughout.

But we must at least make the afford to understand a particular person. Maybe like name, where they live or sch. Those simple 1. Like what they don't like to eat.

Understanding start from approaching, take time to understand a person and you'll find this friendship a very meaningful 1.

Definitely. Sometimes, all we need to know is that someone is actually taking the effort to understand us. It's the effort that counts, that word one called, "TRY''. It goes a long way.

[TingTing189]

Originally Posted by effervescence

It doesn't matter if they're of the opposite sex or not. Everyone confuses me. LOL.

True, not only opposite sex.

But why they confuse you ??

Even tingting too ??